Not struggling quite as much

[Jim1234]

ovrrnbw, thanks for the words of encouragement.

J9, it just seems like when we're "done", here comes another hurtle. We're done with the separation agreement, oh, except she wants alimony still if she moves in with someone.... your divorce is final, but then you have to see her with b/f for the first time..... all while trying, but not quite fully detached. I think you are doing a great job, and keeping things in perspective.

We were texting back and forth yesterday trying to figure out a way to get s18 back to college, and she drops one text that says she'll go with my requests for the separation agreement, but has some things to check with her lawyer. I don't know what that means. I hope she's given up her demand to continue to receive alimony if she moves in with someone or remarries. I'll email her later and ask for clarification, but other than that, the texts were polite, constructive and pleasant.