Did, please read AS's response carefully.....and pay close attention. There is one thing that your post screams: control.
After all of this time I find it strange that you still think you can control her. And you accuse her of manipulation yet your post about how you'd like to proceed is full of control and manipulation.
I used to think that your voluntary support was due to NGS. Now I am thinking it is more a way to continue to try to exert control.
You have to let go. And come to terms with the fact that you can control only one person in this life: yourself.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018