Originally Posted by EZdozit

I may be guilty of modestly engineering this by telling S about my dinner plans knowing he would tell W...but it honestly feels pretty damn good to know I’m percolating her curiosity about my GAL activity!!



Be careful with this thinking. Your GAL activities should be for you to be busy and to be ready to move forward NO MATTER WHAT.

I've written to other posters that GAL activities that include always looking over your shoulder to see if she is noticing will backfire on you every time.

Here is my post using the picnic analogy: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2816570#Post2816570

Avoid this. You should picnic (GAL) without caring one iota whether or not she notices.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018