LBH Looking for Help and Guidance

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JB

Go to 2 or 3 lawyers for consults. Ask around for recommendations. Talk to a mediator who is also a lawyer to determine if you would rather go that route. I would skip the self file or one of those insta-files like legal zoom. If you want this to happen as fast as she does then it will. However while you can't stop D you can pull the breaks and slow it down. Get all the info you can, be on top of the D process.

Following Steve's thought process when you talk about D with wife let her know what your lawyer advises. That will wake her up a bit. It probably won't stop anything, but at least she knows you aren't just going to roll over.