BTW, I'm almost completely convinced that my W isn't WW. It almost hurts worse. She just doesn't want to have anything to do with me. She's sucking it up because it will help D12 get through this (and mainly because if she does get through this, it will alleviate her guilt). Knowing that, do I handle this differently? I'd like to find the right balance between sticking up for myself and taking the high road.