Why not? Why not telling her? Are you going to play family and keep the pain inside? Why not standing for yourself and getting some GAL only you and the girls? I was a wwH some time ago, and I really wanted to have the cake and eat it too. Just like your W.
Harvey, time to face reality, stand for yourself and show the girls how to fight adversity.
My thoughts are with you and the kids. Stay strong man. We are here, behind you. You are not alone.
What exactly would you say? "We're not a family anymore. We are two families with parents who are co-parenting two beautiful girls." That's what I'd like to say, but I'd like to take the high road. I don't begrudge her for the divorce. She wasn't happy. Personally, I think she has some daddy issues, and I'm not the primary reason for her unhappiness. D12 told me that Mom hasn't been happy the last three months. She said she's been worse when I told her that Mom hasn't been happy in our marriage in awhile. I'd really like some advice on how to phrase it, without going too low.
