Wild ride and now trapped in the Bermuda Triangle

[dmoy]

Have you spoken with her recently?

Almost every day. I have 2 kids and we split custody. I'm grateful that I get to see my kids almost 7 days a week to some extent due to the arrangement. Unfortunately that's about the only time I see W but don't really have an opportunity to talk because the kids are around. Nor am I really afforded the ability to "go dark."

I can tell when she's uncomfortable because she starts getting really short at pickup and dropoff... in a hurry to get the kids and leave to avoid any further conversation.

She sent me a settlement agreement 3 months ago. Never said anything, just got it in the mail from her attorney. She later called and brought it up. I told her what points I disagreed with-- mostly asking for more money that I can give her every month, and asked why she never sat down to discuss with me. She made some excuse about how she wanted to but never had time.

I said I wasn't sure if I could sign it and she said she'd have her attorney edit it. Instead I got served papers 3 months later where she wants even more money.