I haven't been on your thread in a while. Just wanted to check in with you. It seems you are still walking a tough path. The longer we walk the hard paths, the harder we get, and the easier the paths we choose seem. You are in control of yourself and I admire you for the way you think and the way you act.
Also, I decided last week that I'm putting up lights this year no matter what. I don't go hog wild like you (didn't know you were such a showboat lulz), but I love Christmas lights and won't let my sitch get me down.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.