This to me doesn’t sound like she wants to take time to work on her issues and come back. But would you say your advice still applies? I do know that things could change in an instant and I feel as though right now she believes that this is the right choice but once she starts missing me she might come around.
Totally agree with AS and Steve85 -- the advice stands. Once again you're trying to read into what she said word for word, and as we've established you shouldn't believe what she says.
You're treating what she says as some kind of "final pronouncement" to stand now and forever, when she has just *proven to you* that she can do a complete about face over the course of a weekend. Nothing she says is a final pronouncement, nothing she says is now and forever. If you treat it that way you make everything worse for both of you.
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
