I feel like I might have overlooked something here. Can you point out what you see that makes ST have NGS? You mentioned he should read the book.
I believe the post where I suggested he move the NMMNG to the top of his list, was a response to a list where he planned to reread some things. He had NMMNG at the bottom of that list and did not indicate that he had previously read it. So, I thought he should read it first, before he started rereading something the second or third time around.
I suppose there may some nice-guys that can't see themselves when reading that book, IDK. From the responses I remember the most, if they have any traits listed in the NGS, they see it plainly when reading the book. So, when he reads NMMNG, maybe he can determine if any of it rings a bell.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
