As he is not working in China, I assume he decided that a contract which meant that he would be away from the children for four weeks at a time was probably not something he wanted to pursue.
This could be true, but it could have nothing to do with the kids. He might need to convince himself that he still *could* do something so wild (ie out of character). That things aren't off the table in his life. It might be less about what Should he do and more about considering what Could he do. Maybe just a daydream and he needed the interview to feed his soul.
Originally Posted by "FlySolo"
He has never responded or mentioned it other than to tell me that he was upset that I had showed it to his sister. I bared my soul and all he could say was "don't send stuff like that to my sister". So, if he couldn't respond to that, I doubt he will respond to an email talking about logistical practicalities.
I get that he wouldn't want his personal life shared with his sis.That's a touchy subject for anyone at any point in a R. Not only was he feeling judged by you (pursuit) but also now by his own family. The logistical email may prove difficult, but ultimately he may respond because it's a different kind of pressure. It doesn't make him look bad, just makes him need to make some choices.
