On another front, I have garnered some interest from a women I was introduced to at church. She knows my situation from my friends as she also went through a similar situation with her H. We talked last night for a couple of hours...about any and everything. I don’t think I’m at a place to where I would have an interest in starting a relationship....but damn...I got the feels in which I haven’t had in years in talking with her....not since I first met W. I know and expect the 2x4’s to come for that...
No 2x4's but just a reminder that you're a man that just came dragging out of a desert of inattention. You're so dry and parched that any sprinkle of water on your tongue seems like manna from Heaven, LOL! No harm in talking to a woman/ women, in fact I see it as a good thing because it reminds you that you DO have value even if not to your W, and there ARE more fish in the ocean and some will just jump right into your boat. All I will suggest is to try and maintain your perspective, keep your overall goals in mind.
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I’m feeling at somewhat of a crossroads. I’m feeling as I’m starting down the path of being the LBS that won’t take WAS back....not yet 100%...but 98% there.
Here's the thing about that crossroads, one path you have no control over. The other you have complete control over. Right? But you don't have to choose which path anytime soon. It'll become more obvious with time, be patient
