Thanks Steve. I'll read your sitch tonight. My wife has already formalized many of the divorce documents and is working with an agency to process the paperwork faster. I'm standing my ground on the important issues. I'm not sure if I want to get lawyers involved because everything goes to [censored] and I dont want my kids to live through that. The OM sitch hurts and I definitely have zero respect for a person who would call me a friend and then try and hook up with my wife (even if she initiated). It hurts because she tried to hide it and he was a mutual friend. I've already made the comparison between him and me and it's not that he's a better man. My wife just needed a shoulder that wasn't mine and he was it. Anyway, thanks for the words of encouragement, Steve.
