Well, truthfully, the WAS hasn't been "in love" with the LBS spouse for a long time. People who are happily married aren't "in love" forever anyways. They may recapture that "in-love" feelings for a few hours, a day, a week, months, etc but life and the challenges of marriage will always be there.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.