Sorry to say this but it's likely there is no love underneath it. Just layers of hurt and anger and resentment. This is really hard for LBS's to understand- that the woman that loved them for so long can suddenly has no loving feelings for them anymore, but it is the case. She may fall for you again in the future, but not right now. I mean she may still "love" you like she loves a relative, but she's not "in love" and there is a big difference.
THAT ^ is the most painful thing I think I've ever read on here as an LBS. As painful, honest and true as it can get.
