Its hard she resents me and has a lot of anger. But I know beneath the anger is hurt and beneath the hurt is love.
Sorry to say this but it's likely there is no love underneath it. Just layers of hurt and anger and resentment. This is really hard for LBS's to understand- that the woman that loved them for so long can suddenly has no loving feelings for them anymore, but it is the case. She may fall for you again in the future, but not right now. I mean she may still "love" you like she loves a relative, but she's not "in love" and there is a big difference.
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No more texting, she calls me manic then says thats enough when I respond. Only mental health issue Ive ever been diagnosed with is mild depression which I have done a lot of therapy to work on. She projects her anger and pain onto me. I need her to stop doing these things if we continue to talk.
So is the purpose of this talk to give her some boundaries about this? I'm unclear on what your objectives are, perhaps you could touch on that some more. I'm inclined to say what Steve is saying, that it's a bad idea. But if your purpose is to lay out some boundaries about treatment that you will not allow then that may be OK.
