Relationships start with communication before they can progress. Thoughts?
Yes, but the problem is, and Did you never did come to grips with this truth, is you HAVE no relationship with her right now. The only links you have between the two of you are: D4 and this voluntary support that you feel the need to continue paying without a court order.
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Hoping to have communication talk tomorrow.
No, do not do this. I can guarantee this is not going to help one bit, and will only hurt your sitch. I've followed your sitch for months and the one thing you've continued to be terrible at is going dark on her. Do it now. Go completely dark. Only time you initiate contact is related to directly to D4 ONLY. Any contact she starts you only respond to things pertaining directly to D4. Anything else you only respond to a direct question, and then in as few words as possible. Her: "Did you get the divorces papers?" You: "Yes." Etc. If she contacts you about anything other than D4, and it isn't a direct question you do not respond.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
