I said whatever scenario life holds for us, if it involves us together, we would have to find a way to make new us. He nodded agreement.
Pursuit! You dangled a little worm and he didn't bite. You were hoping a "new R" with you would seem glitzy but if he was sure of that you'd have known already.
Good point. I see this NOW, but at the time I didn't see it that way. As I said, initiating the whole thing was NOT the thing to do, so I need to get back on track, for sure.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
He texts that he's hurt so that you can come play the caretaker role he likes. I'm guessing you had a lengthy text exchange with him?
Actually, no. He sent a lengthy text about the status, and I responded "I'm Sorry. What a mess". That's it. I know I probably shouldn't have responded at all, but I'm glad I didn't get dragged into the whole problem by initiating advice, which is a 180 for me. I don't plan to check up on him.
