Said he spends a lot of time alone, and found a good neighborhood bar.
A good bar in the neighborhood, totally void of people I imagine.
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I said whatever scenario life holds for us, if it involves us together, we would have to find a way to make new us. He nodded agreement.
Pursuit! You dangled a little worm and he didn't bite. You were hoping a "new R" with you would seem glitzy but if he was sure of that you'd have known already.
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If we continue to live apart, seems to me we would have to make a more formal agreement.
Up to you. What are the pros and cons?
He still has you chasing him around, he still wants your attention, but he's not willing to be reciprocal with your feelings. Try not to let him cake eat. I wouldn't respond to his text about being hurt. If he was seriously hurt, he'd have headed to the hospital already and called 911. He texts that he's hurt so that you can come play the caretaker role he likes. I'm guessing you had a lengthy text exchange with him?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
