Thanks Pain. I wish I had your confidence. I can put it off for awhile...but he is determined, I think. The main thing is that I get to stay in our house and hopefully he will be open to a child care schedule that meets our children’s needs as opposed to his. He will struggle with that I think. But I choose to focus on the here and now and worry about that later. Need to continue to detach and GAL so I can prepare myself to have a fun holiday season.