I just assumed that even though we are not divorced yet since he is in the hospital with a serious infection someone could have said something to me. We have a kid together to God's sake. Suddenly I'm the enemy and I did nothing to him.

I don't get how telling someone to feel better soon is pursuing, but it's fine. He can go do his own thing, I'm looking more into the D paperwork with my attorney tomorrow to move on.

Together for 13 years, married for 8.
H is 46
I'm 40
S is 6
Bombdrop in April 2018
Still in limbo as of 2019