Sounds like quite the week TF and that you handled everything perfectly. Wow...your W is definitely messed up. Sounds like she has relied on you for a lot of things over the years and that her fantasy of being magically happy once she was out on her own is being rapidly dismantled. Good for you for providing her with support but not trying to fix it for her. She has to walk this path alone. My heart breaks for your kids. It sounds as if you are doing the best you can with the situation however. It also sounds like you are rapidly becoming AMOAFWL. Your wife, or what remains of her, is clearly a fool. Hope you have a nice lazy day and kick this bug that is going around. I have it too and hope that I don’t pass it on to my kids. (((HUGS)))