Now facing divorce

[peacetoday]

Whatever she says about you going out-
stay calm
neutral kind, soft tone

Think about just being cordial
thank her if she does anything right
like if she actually starts coming in earlier so you and kids can sleep

If you want to live there together so you can be with your kids
and make sure they are safe-you will have to find the best ways
to get along
not an easy task for the LBS but possible-


practice being positive and upbeat-

figure out how to talk to her and keep the peace in the house-
let the kids see peace between you and her

usually I found to ask for nothing, thank him for anything he helped with and validate him
seemed to work well here and keep things quiet
especially during the separation