I guess this is piecing

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Thanks Ovr good to hear from you. Im on the east coast where are you?

What should my reaction be if she says Im hurting her or bringing her down. Just validate I guess. I understand how hard this is for you... something like that?

Our MC told me I should tell her what my boundaries are - tell her what you need if she wants to date you. She also recommended I make a timeline because W may be stuck for months or years. I had said Feb when I'll turn 34. A half dozen times after our interactions in the past month I've thought, I'm done with this... and we are not even at Feb.

I still believe if I move on / let go she may come back but thats not why Im doing it. Id be done because I dont deserve to be treated this way. I dont see her making any effort. I believe she still has a lot of resentment because of my past mistakes but as my therapist said. How much work could of been done over the last 1.5 years if she had done the work? I have changed a lot and by no means am I a finished product but Im much better than I was and I continue on my journey in therapy, reading, a couple mens groups Im looking to get into... [censored] but it is what it is. Not sure what else I can do except stop talking to her...

She facetimed with D4 around 7pm. Talked to D4 for 5-10 minutes then told them I had to go. I have not texted or reached out and do not plan to.