My reason for staying is mainly for the kids. I can't imagine waking up christmas morning and not having them there. We already have a tree and I see there little eyes light up.
I had to listen to all my audio from replay part 1 in order to organize it for the Atty. She threatened temp orders so many times and never pulled the trigger. There does not have to be a threat, it is not a protective order. They are temp visitation, child support etc... she knows her gravy train ends at that point and I don't think she would do it. I will leave the bedroom alone for now and see how things go.
The main thing I have to deal with is her staying out all hours of the night. I work my tail off and it is really annoying being distracted at 3am by garage door and alarm. It hinders my sleep and I get up at 5am. If not for that I would be ok with everything else.