You're both treating each other poorly. You ignored what neffer said about it being hard to post to you. Your tone, actions, attitude sound very combative. You have an answer to everything. I think I'm understanding what your W has gone through.

Why did you only transfer half of the check, then the whole check? I guess I don't understand the thought process there. It seems weak at the least, controlling at the most. Why not just divide the bills in 2, regardless of who's names they are in, and you each pay half? How hard is that? I think that a little kid could tell you that. But you're looking for her to be wrong and you to be right and then she submits to you. When you should be the person trying to do the right thing.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.