My H is not on Facebook but I am friends with some of his family and friends. I changed my status to separated and just made a short blurb about it. I am not someone that normally posts anything personal but I hate feeling like I am lying to people and I also hate just telling one person at a time. It is painful every time. So I just want people who care to know and not have to discuss it individually with anyone. And now I won’t be on there until months from now when I am feeling up to it.