It's a conundrum. I had second thoughts at times about my approach, but ultimately I think I played things right. I just didn't have much of a chance. My approach has allowed me to move on quicker. You mentioned that you envied my sitch because I haven't been stuck in limbo. Well, you don't need to be stuck in limbo. You can decide to move on with your life. You can't control what your H does. I don't think you need to be cold or short. Just be you. I would continue to work on detaching. I would try to quit mind reading. Those two things really moved me along in the process. It sounds like you are doing well with GAL and 180.