Dealing with a WW trying to save marriage pt2

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So I woke up today to a lengthy text pointing out every single negative of the past that WW can dig up to justify what she is doing.

Yesterday I got my paycheck and I put half of my check into our joint account. WW got angry and started saying that she needed more money in the account. Unfortunately, I relented and transferred the remainder of my check in the account. The only items that have my name on them are the house, my car and my credit card. My car is on our insurance and thats it.

WW in her text stated that I lost weight now and too bad I didnt do that a long time ago, even though I have been working on losing weight since April 2018. WW told me that I was just losing weight to show off for people. WW seems to be very angry that I lost weight now and that I look really good.

WW is obviously still in the affair and trying to control me through money and by complaining about my progress as a person that she can see. WW believes that I dropped 80lbs since BD and doesn't see that I have been doing it a while.

I had transferred half of my check into the joint account which is more than enough for half of the mortgage payment. I paid my car payment already.

So, I have this in mind. WW is trying to get me to use my entire paycheck for what she wants. If I do this, I won't have any $$ left over for myself. I think its fair that since WW put us in this situation and since she makes more money that she pays all of the bills that are in her name. I am happy to pay half of whats in my name.

Should I remove my financial assistance beyond those bills? Should I move my vehicle into my own insurance under my name? I pay for WW's moms phone on my employee cell account. Should I set that phone up for cancel and let her take it to another carrier and pay for it?

I am thinking that I will set up my own insurance for my car, cancel that line and only pay half of the mortgage and WW can pay the rest of the bills which she can easily afford. The rest of the bills are in her name. WW has house cleaners, Comcast Cable that I never watch etc.