It [censored] big time, and I am in a not dissimilar situation, but we have to face reality. Are you happy now? No! could you be happy in the future? Yes. Can you be happy even though you may not have the extra cash? Yes. No amount of money or financial security is worth putting up with an unhappy marriage. You cannot find happiness with your H when he is acting as he is at the moment. Roll your sleeves up girl. You will be happy because of the wonderful, strong, kind and caring person you are. Life is full of challenges, but it's very rewarding when you overcome them.
