Is this a normal response to a 180?

[Yorkie]

Forgot to say: I will always remember my husband of 27 years sitting with serious face on telling me the sexual preferences of his OW, in graphic detail. And thrusting a photo of OW in my best friend's face who had the decency to talk to him several times rather than take sides. I was so shocked and hurt at the time but now I think about it from time to time and just think 'what a ridiculous man' Time and detachment did that for me.