Ohmigosh Yali!!! I LOVE that. What a wonderful quote. It is so beautiful and simple. Thank you for sharing that.
Cdd... all I can say is that you are way too good for your H. He is being incredibly disrespectful and cruel. There is no excuse for that. He is doing it with a purpose...to make you feel less worthLESS. Know your worth!!! Dig deep. Look past your emotions. If your daughter was you, what would you advise her to do? What does your WISE mind say?
Your H needs some serious therapy, IMO, but you are not his therapist nor should you be.