End the cycle of combative behavior between you and your wife. She was clearly geared up and ready for it when you got home. Take the high road and show her peace and love is possible by telling her that you are disclosing your personal business to everyone when she asks about people asking about her. That would have been better than telling her to not assume.
Good luck and have fun on your GAL.
I didnt tell her to not assume.
I first told her that nobody asked and that I didnt share what was going on. She responded with "yeah right" to which I responded "please dont assume these things"
There was no combativeness. There is no cycle of combativeness. WW tries to make a cycle of confrontation, which has been softening. But I have not once been drawn into an argument.
Just to clarify, I meant to say tell your W you are not disclosing your personal business. It's just a way to deescalate.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
