Originally Posted by Gordie
Hamburg

I support you no matter what

You are in the worst of it

And there are no rules because only you know all the details

We all say focus on you and the kids because that is what works

Whether or not you can be friends while she is with OM

That is up to you

I could not do that because it hurt too much and I told my w that

She wanted to tell me all about him and introduce him to me like I was her father

I said I wanted to know nothing about him nor ever meet him

She envisioned we would all be friends

The fact I would not play along pissed her off

So better for you to just focus on you and the kids

Let her go not in a vindictive way but just that you have much better things to do than get caught up in her circus

And you do

That sounds terrible. I cannot understand the mentality of these folks. How did your situation end up?