And there are no rules because only you know all the details
We all say focus on you and the kids because that is what works
Whether or not you can be friends while she is with OM
That is up to you
I could not do that because it hurt too much and I told my w that
She wanted to tell me all about him and introduce him to me like I was her father
I said I wanted to know nothing about him nor ever meet him
She envisioned we would all be friends
The fact I would not play along pissed her off
So better for you to just focus on you and the kids
Let her go not in a vindictive way but just that you have much better things to do than get caught up in her circus
And you do
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving