So I’m at a loss of what to do next. I’ve been GAL and I intend on continuing that. I’ve stepped up my appearance game. I’m not telling him that I love him. I’ve detached lovingly. I know he notices all this, I can tell by his behavior. Each day he initiated conversations with me and I listen and respond to what I feel deserves a response. We are actually getting along very well when it comes to the regular day-to-day things.
Wait and see. That's what the book says anyways.
Your spouse needs more time and space still. So you keep on making your life better, hoping for the best but not counting on it.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
