End the cycle of combative behavior between you and your wife. She was clearly geared up and ready for it when you got home. Take the high road and show her peace and love is possible by telling her that you are disclosing your personal business to everyone when she asks about people asking about her. That would have been better than telling her to not assume.
Good luck and have fun on your GAL.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.