Had one of my more enjoyable Thanksgivings at In-Laws. Ate too much. Especially pie. Stayed away from my caustic SIL and out of the normal, she hugged me upon arrival. I heard W mentioning me a few times in a favorable way. So these are good things. All is not perfect but, much improved.
For contrast: I remember years where I waited in the car to leave. I have always loved my MIL and FIL. But Ws siblings always presented a challenge. Lots of people in a small house.
Anyway, I'm sure many of you are facing increased challenges with the Holiday season. I hope you will take some time and mentally and emotionally prepare.
*Lower expectations *Watch alcohol intake. Don't increase your odds of your real feeling slipping out. lol *Let others start the discussions. If you can't just listen and validate, politely excuse yourself from the conversation.
Even though this is an emotionally difficult time of year for so many, rise above your sitch and remember it is also a tremendous opportunity to 180. WW and WH will be watching. Take advantage. And remember if you don't attract them back, you won't be able to decide if you even want them.
Take care and God bless.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
