So I’m at a loss of what to do next. I’ve been GAL and I intend on continuing that. I’ve stepped up my appearance game. I’m not telling him that I love him. I’ve detached lovingly. I know he notices all this, I can tell by his behavior. Each day he initiated conversations with me and I listen and respond to what I feel deserves a response. We are actually getting along very well when it comes to the regular day-to-day things.
I wish I had some words of wisdom for you Living, because to me as a newbie it seems you're doing everything right. But the response just seems so...neutral? Neutral is a hard thing to respond to! I think you're doing well. The only piece I'd be curious on is if folks think you should put a stop (a kind stop) to things like him kissing you. Draw the line firmer? I don't know.