No, the in laws are right. I did a lot of emotional abuse. Berating, nitpicking, nothing was ever done right or good enough for me. Learned that from my dad unfortunately. Totally pushed my wife away and we weren't intimate or sexual like a healthy couple should be. My W did fight for the marriage for a while but I don't think she knew what the heck was going on or how to deal with it. There probably wasn't much she could do.
W has said that she doesn't hate me anymore.
Maybe I did make it too easy for her to come back. I still have things to improve on and learn from.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
