Now facing divorce

[peacetoday]

Hi

If you can stand still for a while and work on just you-
work on the relationship with your kids
work on healing your pain
work on forgiving her and the loss of the old M

watch the situation
watch her actions
put limits on the funds-and watch because they do spend-
maybe be supportive, cordial accepting for now
let her go-but work on you
more will be revealed later

some people stand for longer than others
many stand until we see no further hope-
some stand for ever
anyway you choose is ok
we each have a choice based on our specific situation

but to stand back for a year or 2 is a good option

because it gives you time to reflect
there is no where really to go anyway
except within to heal
so what does it matter where she is or where you are

practice being accepting detaching and letting go-
difficult yes--but it is the higher road
takes more patience than many of us care to practice
that will take a while-but it will set you up for a more peaceful and fulfilled life
with or without her-