I'm so sorry to hear of these latest developments. Your wife sounds young and immature so it seems there's no quick fix to this situation. She did come back to you and she'll probably do it again, even if she once again wants to leave, but this back-and-forth is a big hardship for you and the way you make it so easy for her to come back may be enabling her behavior. Her family doesn't sound like they're helping matters. One thing I can't understand after reading your threads is if there's something you think you could have done better in the marriage? If her family blames you and if your wife feels so free to come-and-go, what's the role you believe you've played? And how closely does that role match what they're blaming you for? I doubt you've done anything wrong but it's interesting to hear how someone's family is so gullible that they'd blame their daughter's husband when their own daughter is having an affair. It's a no-win situation for you!
