What else can you change in your behaviors, interactions, etc that show him you don't need him, but you want him to commit only to you?
Can you flirt with him? Or better yet can you tease him? Show him what he will miss out on if he doesn't commit?
Like I said earlier, you should have fun with this. Stir up his desire for you. Do things he would not expect from you.
Remember that you are the prize. You want him chasing you.
Aren't these pursuing behaviors? How does one seduce without being the pursuer? Maybe it's just looking good, smelling good, and being mysterious without saying or doing anything. But that's what Living seems to be doing. My H was over for Thanksgiving yesterday. I made sure I was in full make-up, had a cute outfit on, and had perfume on. I walked by H and he said wow, you smell good! Maybe that's what you are talking about?
Yes Grace21 I知 a little confused. He has acknowledged that in his words...I have been looking damn good and that I am absolutely beautiful. He痴 told me I look good everyday for the past maybe couple of weeks. He is pursuing me like crazy. Yesterday he kissed me on my neck and whispered in my ear that he really does love me. Last night he came in my room and he thanked me for allowing him to participate in Thanksgiving with me and the kids. He said he really enjoyed the day and didn稚 know where he would be without us. He acknowledged how difficult it must have been for me and he said he痴 sorry for making things difficult. That痴 when he kissed me on my neck and said that he really loved me. He then left the room and went to sleep in our spare room (which is where he痴 been sleeping for the last few weeks).
So I知 at a loss of what to do next. I致e been GAL and I intend on continuing that. I致e stepped up my appearance game. I知 not telling him that I love him. I致e detached lovingly. I know he notices all this, I can tell by his behavior. Each day he initiated conversations with me and I listen and respond to what I feel deserves a response. We are actually getting along very well when it comes to the regular day-to-day things.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
