I get really angry when I read your sitch at the disrespect your W shows you. I can't imagine the feeling you have knowing she's spending the night with another man. I'm am really sorry you are going through this right now.
LH beat me to it. Completely agree with him H. I'm very sorry to hear what you are going through.
No family time, no nothing with her period other than kids/finances.
Again as I've said her complete and utter disrespect towards you I pray will push you forward. In no way will it be easy at all, but you need to drop all thoughts of her, only you and the kids and go through the pain. We are ALL in the same boat on going through the process so hopefully that can provide you some limited degree of comfort.
Praying for you buddy. Know you don't deserve the S**T she is putting you through!!
