Originally Posted by Ready2Change

What else can you change in your behaviors, interactions, etc that show him you don't need him, but you want him to commit only to you?

Can you flirt with him? Or better yet can you tease him? Show him what he will miss out on if he doesn't commit?


Like I said earlier, you should have fun with this. Stir up his desire for you. Do things he would not expect from you.


Remember that you are the prize. You want him chasing you.


Aren't these pursuing behaviors? How does one seduce without being the pursuer? Maybe it's just looking good, smelling good, and being mysterious without saying or doing anything. But that's what Living seems to be doing. My H was over for Thanksgiving yesterday. I made sure I was in full make-up, had a cute outfit on, and had perfume on. I walked by H and he said wow, you smell good! Maybe that's what you are talking about?


M: 56
H: 57
S: 22
D: 20

H Moved out: 10/1/18