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What I need to hear him say is that he’s committed to working on our marriage together. That is what I haven’t heard. I refuse to do all the work.

I believe you are putting too much value on his words. His actions should precede his words.

I still believe your best option is to work on seducing him back. He has noticed your changes.

The question is, are the changes drawing him closer or pushing him away?

What else can you change in your behaviors, interactions, etc that show him you don't need him, but you want him to commit only to you?

Can you flirt with him? Or better yet can you tease him? Show him what he will miss out on if he doesn't commit?


Like I said earlier, you should have fun with this. Stir up his desire for you. Do things he would not expect from you.


Remember that you are the prize. You want him chasing you.

Ready2Change he has definitely noticed my changes, I can tell.

I have been walking around looking real good. I’ve also been looking hot when I leave the house to GAL. He’s always curious and wants to know where I’m going. I just say out. I couldn’t come up with a better answer, lol.

As far as seducing him further, stirring up his desire for me, and doing things he wouldn’t expect, can you give examples. Like am I supposed to do some sexual stuff? Please don’t laugh at me for asking. I’m a little confused. I have flirted with him some and he is definitely chasing me even more.

So here’s the thing, he definitely is chasing me and pursuing me. So how do I seduce him to make him see I’m the prize and he should only commit to me? Any tips would be greatly appreciated.