I am going to start the "After the last resort" technique from DR book. I informed her that I am prepared to set her free, and from here on out, I will have minimal contact with her. Is this advisable?
Hurt, Ask yourself why. From my outside perspective it looks like you are making good progress on detaching and really letting her go. If that is the case then absolutely set her free and have minimal contact with her. Just be 100% sure that you are doing it because it is whats best for you and not to get some sort of reaction from her.
