Originally Posted by Maximus
Hi Guys,

When you say that you understand your part in the breakdown or that you share the blame for the problems in the marriage have you really thought about what you did or did not do? Do you have examples with legitimate results where you can pinpoint?

In the event of the relationship ending and you starting a new one, do you know what you need to do or not to do differently to avoid the same results?

Do any of you know your spouse’s language of love?

Peace

Max


I understand fully. I understood years ago. I have changed significantly over the last few years because I needed to. I wanted a strong marriage. I made the effort. However it was too late because she was full tilt focused on herself.


M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019