Mildest November up here on the West Coast that I can remember but the cold is coming. So happy to read your post Davide. I, too, am grateful for this forum and for the people on here who take the time to offer such thoughtful and honest advice. I am way better off right now emotionally than I would have been had I not found this site. Moving towards acceptance and towards surrendering to the process and letting be what will be. I think that is the goal for most of us. Happy Thanksgiving!!