That was quite the introduction. You clearly have given a lot of thought to the matter and seem to be operating from a place of good emotional stability. Most of us are in pieces or curled up in the fetal position when we first start posting here.
You say that W "walked away 10 months ago." I assume that means that she left the marriage home and is living elsewhere? Steve's point is that the most common reason for a WW to leave the house is so that they can carry on a PA. Do you think that is a possibility? If it were true would that affect your line of thinking?
You seem to understand the need to let her go and to focus on your own life and keep advancing with it. Of course, saying that and following through with it are two very different beasts. Are you at a point where you are happy with how your own life is going, independent of her?
Thank you for the reminder to constantly search for reasons to be grateful in our lives. Even in these dark hours there are so many beacons of light if we only lift up our eyes. May you be blessed with much gratitude as well.
Take care,
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
